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Kay Metcalfe Obituary

KAY MARGARET METCALFE
12/22/42~3/18/11

In memory of Kay Margaret Metcalfe, 68, passed away at her home in Ridgefield, Washington on March 18, 2011. She was the daughter of Franklin H. and Marion Orchard born in Spokane, Washington. Her early years were spent in Tacoma, Washington and upon graduating from high school, attended Washington State University.
She is survived by her husband, Robert A. Metcalfe; brother, Del Orchard, DVM; sons, Frank Funk and Brett Funk; and her six grandchildren; along with two step-daughters, Jolene and Valerie Metcalfe.
Kay loved everyone and especially enjoyed spending time with her grand-daughters Jordyn, Jaelyn, Josie, Kate, Megan and Zoie.
After a business career in high-rise office building management, Kay became an avid golfer, knitter and reader.
A memorial service will be held at the Evergreen Memorial Gardens Chapel, 1101 NE 112th Avenue, Vancouver, Washington (360) 892-6060 on Saturday, March 26, 2011 at 12:30pm.
Please sign the Guest Book at www.columbian.com/obits.

Published by The Columbian on Mar. 22, 2011.
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There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you or see something that reminds me of you. Rest in peace, my friend.

Rita Levesque

March 16, 2019

Kay and I were friends back in the eighties, when we both lived in Tigard. Our sons shared sports together and that is where I met this very warm and fun lady. We lost contact for several years and then we re-connected in "Pub-Links" golf group. I was so glad to see her again and I will surely miss seeing her swing that club. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Bev Raudy

March 29, 2011

Bob and family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Kay was a great lady and will be missed by all. We have not seen the two of you for some time but we have many wonderful memories from the past. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Larry & Sharon Hill

March 28, 2011

Kay was my cousin. As newcomer to Oregon in the 1970's I got to know her parents, my uncle Frank who rapidly became my favorite uncle, and Marion, who was a most gracious Lady by any definition of the word. Although I did not have the pleasure of seeing Kay often, it was always clear to me that she shared many of her parents wonderful qualities.

Cousin Mike

Michael Orchard

March 26, 2011

Kay was my best friend for over thirty years. We met through our first husbands, survived our respective divorces, partied until we settled down for the second time, and then with great dignity and decorum (if you can believe that) entered our golden years. The only constant during those thirty years was Kay's smile, her love of life and her unfailing support. Our weekly lunches were always the highlight of my work week. As I write this I cannot help but remember the hilarious times shared: chasing mice with a broom at her house in Pine Hollow, catching cable cars in San Francisco, the miles of shelves she lined for me each time I moved, and of course, the Dufur Threshing Bee. My life will always be better for having known her and I will miss her for the rest of my days. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob, Frank, Brett, her 'grand-girls' and her other girls, Maggie and Maize.

Rita Levesque

March 24, 2011

Bob, I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Eric Grindy (from your N&S days)

March 23, 2011

Dear Bob,
A note to say how sad I am to hear of your loss. Kay was a wonderful woman and I will miss her dearly! My daughter still wears the poncho she knitted for her when I was pregnant and I will cherish it forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!

Amy Davis

March 22, 2011

Dear Bob and family.............as Kays ex-sister in law of years ago, i want to express my sympathy...........i loved Kay like a sister and she was always there for anyone that needed her..........we lost touch over the years but re-united just last year and i will cherish those letters we wrote to each other...........Bonnie (Funk)Narrance

March 22, 2011

Dear Bob and Family,
Kay had a smile that lit up the room. She was such a wonderul woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.

Susie & Rory McKee

March 22, 2011

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