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Bryan Kyle Grammer

1941 - 2020

Bryan Kyle Grammer obituary, 1941-2020, Vancouver, WA

BORN

1941

DIED

2020

Bryan Grammer Obituary


BRYAN KYLE GRAMMER
April 10, 1941 ˜ April 1, 2020

Bryan Kyle Grammer was born to Jesse and Eva Grammer in Pecos, TX. As a child in West Texas he accompanied his father on cattle drives; sleeping on his saddle for a pillow at night and eating meals from a chuck box.
He graduated from Texas A&M and then joined the Navy to serve two tours of duty in Vietnam as a P-3 Orion pilot.
Bryan then flew as a commercial pilot for American, Western, and Delta airlines. He retired as a Delta Captain flying routes to Asia and Europe. In retirement, Bryan had a passion for golf, skiing, travel, spending time with family, and enjoying the company of his many friends.
He was the proud and devoted father to Matthew Grammer, Kyle Grammer (Alisa) and Lori Gambino (Nicholas). He was beloved by his grandchildren: Bryndan, Layla, Antonio, Finn, and Giovanni.
Bryan will also be missed by his sister-in-law, Diane Grammer and his nephews, Kelly Grammer (DeeDee) and Kevin Grammer (Carla) and their families.
He was preceded in death by his mother, father, sister Frankie, and brother Jesse Charles.
Bryan was man of kindness, generosity, and good humor. He will be deeply missed.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to a charity of your choice.
A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.
Please sign his guest book @ www.columbian.com/obits

Published by The Columbian on Apr. 12, 2020.
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It´s been two years since Bryan passed. We think of him often and still miss him every day! I´m sure Matt, Lori, and Kyle do too, and his grand children as well. Our thoughts are with you on the anniversary of his loss. Bryan was such a kind and caring soul, the World is a better place for his having been here.

Ursula Gibbons

Ursula Gibbons

Friend

April 6, 2023

I remember the first time I was invited to dinner at the Grammar after they got settled in. We started talking about family and Carol mentioned her brother had been a wrestling coach at Clark College ( Gerald Franzen ). After I shared my stories Bryan, said I so sorry I guess we owe you another dinner and wine. So understanding, kind and one great human being. I hope time has healed all that have loved him. He will always be a warm spot in my heart.
Gerry

Gerry Spencer

Friend

April 6, 2021

Matt, Kyle, and Lori~ I am just now seeing this; I’m so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. I can’t tell you how many wonderful memories I had of him while at family get togethers. I had such a crush on him as a little girl! I’ll always remember his soft spoken manner, his joyful eyes, and his brilliant smile. My condolences to and your families, and I hope to see you before too long. I send hugs and my love your way. ~Amy

Amy (DeBusk) Wipper

Family

August 16, 2020

Bryan was a good man and a good friend to all his PHS classmates. I thank him for his service to our country. I pray for comfort to all his family in their grief.

Barney McCasland

May 2, 2020

Class of 1959, Pecos High School is devastated to lose "our Bryan". He was always so kind and generous and fun to be with. We all love you and miss you, Bryan.

Delinda McDonald

April 20, 2020

Bryan was a great brother in law but more he was a great friend,kind to everyone,an a great brother He was always there to help me take care of Buddy when he was sick.His children will miss him but he will always be in in their heart

Diane Grammer

April 19, 2020

Bryan will be missed. What a fine man.

Barbara Frandsen

April 18, 2020

Miss you Bryan. Always enjoyed your company on our "movie days on tight wad Tuesdays" when we'd find the best film available and you'd meet us at whatever theater. We'd always follow up with lunch and listen to each other's stories. I know your family must miss you terribly, they were such a big part of your life! My condolences to them. Thank you Bryan for being such a wonderful friend!

April 18, 2020

words cannot express how I feel about Bryan. I have never met a more caring or loving person. He will forever hold a special place in my heart and thoughts. My world wont be the same without him!

john Gibbons

April 18, 2020

Just saw picture in 1958 annual. Pecos High 1959. He was always a great gentleman and very kind! Praying for his family in their sadness ☺

Beulah Harris

April 18, 2020

Rest in peace Bryan I will miss are talks. And to the family as well I'm so sorry for your loss.

Mike Batista

April 17, 2020

Bryan was always a gentleman. I enjoyed the times I would stop in at his home and just chat or get together with Dick Brems for lunch. May he rest with the Lord.
Gary Lee Parks
retired Western & Delta pilot
PS. Let me know when his Memorial will be please
[email protected]

April 13, 2020

Bryan was a lovely, caring man to all and generous to a fault. He took time to do the little things for others that showed he cared. Our prayers are with him and for his family now and always.

Terri DeBusk

Family

April 13, 2020

Bryan was a kind and caring gentleman. Our daughter was working in Tokyo when Bryan was flying the Delta route and he would always offer to take her "care packages" which she greatly appreciated. Our family also greatly appreciates the great neighbor he was to my mother while living at Lake Shore Hills.
We are so sorry for your loss. May your wonderful memories bring some comfort.
Kaye Bowers

Kaye Bowers

April 13, 2020

I loved Uncle Bryan very much. He was one of the kindest, friendliest, most giving persons I have ever met. He meant a lot to me, Mom, and Kelly. So sorry for your loss. I love all of you. Take care of each other, and know you are lucky to have known him as well as you did. Love you all.

Kevin Grammer

April 13, 2020

Bryan had so many admirable traits; fun to be around, yet hard working, active and generous. He was such a good father and grandfather. He married into a large family and was such a good sport. He will be greatly missed by many.

Patti and Dave Rouse

April 13, 2020

Bryan was the kindest, nicest person I have ever have been blessed with in my life. Even though we didnt get many opportunities to be with Bryan in the last few years, he will be terribly missed! Rest In Peace Bryan!

Ann Franzen

Family

April 13, 2020

I visited Bryan and Carol,Jess and Eva in Pecos in 1970.Jess and Bryan convinced me competing in the local rodeo would be good Texas fun.They convinced me competing the second night could still be fun;A leather glove would protect my injured left hand .A true Texas family,they were warm,generous,honest, open,direct,practical and hard working.They were also tough as horse shoe nails.There could be no greater testimonial to Bryan than his children and grandchildren that he loved so well and imprinted so deeply with his upstanding family values.

Gerald Franzen

Family

April 12, 2020

I remember visiting Jesse and Eva,Bryan and Carol in Pecos in 1970.Jesse and Bryan convinced me that competing in the local rodeo,in the wild horse race would be fun. They convinced me to compete the second night;just put a leather glove on my injured hand.They were true Texans.Polite, generous,straight forward,hard working,honest, sincere,and tough as horse shoe nails.There can be no higher legacy to Bryan's life than his children and grandchildren that he loved so well and imprinted so deeply with strong and upstanding values.

April 12, 2020

I remember visiting Bryan and Carol in Pecos in 1970.Bryan and his father talked me into participating in the local rodeo as part of a wild horse riding team.It would be fun.Jesse convinced me I could compete the second night;just put a glove on my injured left hand.They were true Texans.Honest,hardy,generous,hard working,considerate,polite and sincere and tough in their way as horse shoe nails.There can be no greater testimonial to Bryan's character and legacy than the children and grand children that he loved and imprinted so deeply with his upstanding character.

Gerald Franzen

April 12, 2020

I feel blessed and privileged to have known Bryan. Honest, personable, loving father and grand father and a friend. Always a face cracking smile, I will forever see when thinking of Bryan, sincere condolences to family and friends, he will be missed.

Mike FRANZEN

April 12, 2020

I was so sorry to hear of Bryan's passing. He was such a very nice man.
My thoughts and prayers to his family.

Diane Huss

April 12, 2020

Oh, yes ... Bryan was always greeting others with "that smile" and willingness to help others. God's blessing is evident through Bryan's spirit.

Joel & Babs Scott

April 12, 2020

I enjoyed visiting with Brian during our Delta flights and other times. My condolences to the family at this sad time.

John Montague

April 12, 2020

Bryan was a blessing for all who knew him.
He was kind and welcoming to all who crossed his path. He was an amazing man and he will be missed deeply.
Jan and Rick Morrell

Jan Morrell

April 12, 2020

One of the good guys, always a pleasure to fly with. He will be missed.
Captain Jim Wonsettler

April 12, 2020

Brian and I were in the same WAL new hire class. He was a first class gentleman !!!

Dave Baccitich

April 12, 2020

I am so saddened to hear of Brian's passing. Heartfelt prayers to his family.

I knew Brian at Delta. He was a great guy to fly with. He will be missed.

John Ley

April 12, 2020

Bryan was a kind person with a big heart helping others. He will be greatly missed.

John

April 12, 2020

When we first met I was your real estate agent some many years ago. Back then I thought of you as the Ozzie and Harriet Family. Soft spoken loving and caring.

A few month ago when we met again I thought the same thing what an amazing man. I regret we never got to have that round of golf we talked about. You are missed! RIP old friend.

Gerry Spencer

April 12, 2020

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